Age 3.
The age when kids start misbehaving on purpose: "Mom! I'm sitting on the baby!"
The age when they get frustrated and angry over the littlest thing: 'Don't call me a brother!! I am NOT a brother! I am Charlie!!...Sammy is the brother."
When their cognitive and motor skills increase in helpful ways: "I can get my boots on by myself!"
...and not so helpful ways "I can put this stick of butter in the microwave and set it for 17 minutes!"
When the can be as stubborn as a mule and as demanding as a diva:"I will only go to Christmas Eve Mass in my footie pajamas - anything else you try to put on me I will immediately rip off in a screaming fit of rage!"
At the same time, it's the age where kids carry around in their back pocket a ray of sunshine that they frequently whip out and share with the world around them: "Did you pee in the potty, Mommy? You are a Big Boy!!!"
Charlie is 3 and he is very, very good at it. Here's a glimpse of today:
The first thing Charlie did upon waking today was scold me for saying "Hi, Charlie!" instead of what he apparently considered the only appropriate greeting for that time of day. His immediate response was, "No! You're supposed to say 'Good Morning'!"
A few minutes later, after I put on a new sweater, which I guess is his new favorite, he ran over to me, jumping up and down with a big smile, and gave me a hug saying, "Pretty! Pretty! Pretty!"
And it continued in that pattern the rest of the day. If he's like the older two, the mood swings should taper off in about a year....only to start up again 8-10 years later.